To Write Love on Her Arms

Did you see anyone with LOVE written on her arms last Friday?

We (MissN and me) had Love written on our arms:

I guess we could have been a bit more creative, huh? Colour would have been good.  My friend Sam had photos on facebook of the most amazingly colourful arms on her and her friend!

Why did we use permanemt marker on ourselves?  To raise awareness and  show our support for the issues and more importantly to show support for those suffering from depression, self harm and addiction.  And to celebrate that there IS hope and recovery.

Thanks to Melly – I copied the post below from your blog.  I’m sure you don’t mind.

MISSION STATEMENT:

To Write Love on Her Arms is a non-profit movement dedicated to presenting hope and finding help for people struggling with depression, addiction, self-injury and suicide. TWLOHA exists to encourage, inform, inspire and also to invest directly into treatment and recovery.

VISION:

The vision is that we actually believe these things…

You were created to love and be loved. You were meant to live life in relationship with other people, to know and be known. You need to know that your story is important and that you’re part of a bigger story. You need to know that your life matters.

We live in a difficult world, a broken world. My friend Byron is very smart – he says that life is hard for most people most of the time. We believe that everyone can relate to pain, that all of us live with questions, and all of us get stuck in moments. You need to know that you’re not alone in the places you feel stuck.

We all wake to the human condition. We wake to mystery and beauty but also to tragedy and loss. Millions of people live with problems of pain. Millions of homes are filled with questions – moments and seasons and cycles that come as thieves and aim to stay. We know that pain is very real. It is our privilege to suggest that hope is real, and that help is real.

You need to know that rescue is possible, that freedom is possible, that God is still in the business of redemption. We’re seeing it happen. We’re seeing lives change as people get the help they need. People sitting across from a counselor for the first time. People stepping into treatment. In desperate moments, people calling a suicide hotline. We know that the first step to recovery is the hardest to take. We want to say here that it’s worth it, that your life is worth fighting for, that it’s possible to change.

Beyond treatment, we believe that community is essential, that people need other people, that we were never meant to do life alone.

The vision is that community and hope and help would replace secrets and silence.

The vision is people putting down guns and blades and bottles.

The vision is that we can reduce the suicide rate in Australia and around the world.

The vision is that we would learn what it means to love our friends, and that we would love ourselves enough to get the help we need.

The vision is better endings. The vision is the restoration of broken families and broken relationships. The vision is people finding life, finding freedom, finding love. The vision is graduation, a Super Bowl, a wedding, a child, a sunrise. The vision is people becoming incredible parents, people breaking cycles, making change.

The vision is the possibility that your best days are ahead.

The vision is the possibility that we’re more loved than we’ll ever know.

The vision is hope, and hope is real.

You are not alone, and this is not the end of your story.

[ from http://www.twloha.com/vision/ ]

If  suspect someone you know is self harming, please urge them to get professional help.  It’s addictive and very common amongst teens, especially girls.  Many will try it because it’s “in” (and the emo subculture is an almost-mainstream way for to express their pain) and become addicted to dealing with their pain and depression with self harm, instead of learning other ways of coping and managing their mental health.

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4 Responses to “To Write Love on Her Arms”

  1. MellissaD Says:

  2. Kin Says:

    I saw several girls at school with it and stopped myself from telling them off (writing on oneself and others is a big no-no at the school) because I saw about 5 or 6 girls with it.

    A lovely idea 🙂

  3. dawni/Sam Says:

    Your arms look great. 🙂 Colourful isn’t as important as getting the message out there (which I know you already know, but still!)

    While my friend and I were headed home from the beach we saw another girl with love on her arm, but we weren’t brave enough to go say hi!

  4. lightening Says:

    I didn’t see anyone in real life but a few facebook friends did do it. I thought about it but wasn’t really going anywhere so it didn’t make sense. It’s a good idea though. Only problem is, I HATE my kids drawing on their arms so I’m not sure if encouraging them to do so is a good idea (not that they’re really old enough to participate yet and maybe when they are they’ll understand the difference between general grafitti on their arms and something symbolic like this).

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